TOMORROW NEVER COMES!

This is how you tell a winner from a loser, a successful person from an unsuccessful one; it’s by what they say, you can tell a lot about a person by the things that they tell you. When you talk to a winner about their dreams and goals, they’ll tell you what it is, they’ll tell you what they’ll do to achieve it, and they’ll tell you when. When a loser talks about their dreams and goals, that is assuming that they even have one, you’ll hear them say things like, “I hope to buy my dream car someday,” or “I hope to be financially free someday,” or “I’ll join the gym tomorrow”. For those losers, this may come as a shock to you but please get this through that thick skull of yours, TOMORROW NEVER COMES!You know someone has a loser mentality when they use words like, "someday, “or "I hope," or "I wish". They do this because they feel that this way they’re not accountable for the things they say, it relinquishes them of the responsibility of doing more than what they've grown so accustomed to. They never place a timeline to achieve that dream or set a goal because they know that they’ll never in a million years do it.Most people with this mentality are hoping that they strike the lottery someday, they don’t buy the lottery tickets even as they hope for this by the way, or maybe they are hoping that money will fall of the skies.Losers never set timelines to their goals and dreams because they know that if they don’t meet this timeline, they become a failure, and losers don’t like knowing that they are failures, they avoid the fact at all cost, they’re in constant denial of how much of a loser they truly are.Winners are not afraid of failing as they’ve learned that success is a direct result of failing enough times. Winners learn from these mistakes and do better and excel even higher. Losers, after making a mistake, will crawl back to their safe holes and continue doing what they always have been doing, what they know best, they always take the easy way out.I dare you, ask the top 500 self made millionaires in the world and they’ll tell you without flinching that success comes with its share of failures. Losers are afraid of failing, so they stick to a routine and they live their lives the tried and tested way, they do what they do because everyone else does it.This is why 99 percent of the world’s population will never be financially free, and yes you, reading this, you are part of that statistic. You will continue to live your days like a coward. You will continue doing tomorrow what you did today. Change is too hard for you. You’ve learn to become comfortable with the little that you have and you’re adept at coming up with excuses.All of us have big dreams, but how many of us have set goals to achieve these dreams. Having dreams is the easy part, (although I wonder why some people are so stingy with their dreams sometimes, dreams are the only thing in life that's free, and even then we limit ourselves to how much can we expect from ourselves), it’s the goal, the timeline that you set upon your dreams that makes it a reality.If you want to achieve anything in your life, anything at all, you must give it a timeline. Someday will never come, tomorrow is as good as just giving up. Don’t be afraid to fail, just keep making those goals and exhaust all options into making that timeline, take action now, persistence pays off, I promise you that. Whatever problems you may think you have, you've conjured it up there in your mind, your biggest problems are all in your head. If you think it, you are it! Often, when you say you can’t do something, you’re right, you can’t, only because you think it, it’s in your mind and you become that.A lot of people have said this to me, myself included by the way, “I’ll do it someday”, “I’ll invest in that stock someday”, “I’ll read that book someday”, “I’ll finish my studies someday”, “I’ll start that business someday”, “I’ll join the gym someday”, “I’ll quit smoking someday”, “I’ll go on that vacation someday”, “I’ll get out of debt someday”, etcetera, etcetera. They always postpone the things that will ultimately give them the wealth and the prosperity they’ve always wanted in the first place for later, and before long, later becomes a part of them.

Someday is a part of who they are, they never get anything done, their lives will continue to be filled with more hopes and dreams. These people will by then, have added another thousand excuses to their existing millions for not doing anything about their situation, about their lives, they will blame everything and everyone else, from their government, to their dead ancestors, and their neighbors cats, anything but doing what’s necessary for change to happen within them.They will blame god, they will blame fate, they will blame their families, their jobs, their bosses, they never because god forbids it, they never ever blame themselves. A lot of people have died never realizing their dreams, they just make do with the lives they have and they convince themselves that they’re happy with who they are and with whatever little they have, because it’s easier, because changing is too much work. They begin speaking ill of the rich and successful, so much so that they think that the rich and successful became that way because of their corrupt and manipulative ways, they begin gossiping amongst themselves and they grow envious of the others that have that little more than what they do.These people will always think that they have the ability to change someday when they’re ready, when they’re pushed to that corner, when they must, when it is needed.Someday will never come, someday is too late.