Friend

Best story you'll ever read, no doubt about that!

As you got up this morning, I watched you and hoped you would talk to me, even if it was just a few words, asking my opinion or thanking me for something good that happened in your life yesterday. However, I noticed you were too busy, trying to find the right outfit to wear.

When you ran around the house getting ready, I knew there would be a few minutes for you to stop and say hello but you were too busy again. At one point, you had to wait fifteen minutes with nothing to do except to sit in a chair. Then, I saw you spring to your feet. I thought you wanted to talk to me but you ran to the phone and called a friend to get the latest gossip instead. I watched patiently all day long. With all our activities, I guess you were too busy to say anything to me.

I noticed that you looked around before lunch. Maybe you felt embarrassed to talk to me and that is why you didn't bow your head. You glanced at three or four tables around you and you noticed some of your friends talking to me briefly before they ate but you didn't. That's okay. There is still more time left and I hope that you will talk to me yet.

You went home and it seems as if you had lots of things to do. After a few of them were done, you turned on the television. I don't know if you like television or not. Just about anything goes there and you spend a lot of time each day in front of it not thinking about anything and just enjoying the show. I waited patiently again as you watched the television program and ate your meal, but again you didn't talk to me.
I guess you felt too tired at bedtime. After you said goodnight to your family, you plopped into bed and fell asleep in no time. That's okay because you may not realize that I am always there for you. I've got patience, more than you will ever know... I even want to teach you how to be patient with others as well.
I love you so much that I wait everyday for a nod, prayer or thought, or a thankful part of your heart. It is hard to have a one-sided conversation.

Well, you are getting up once again. Once again, I will wait with nothing but love for you. I hope that you will give me some time today. Have a nice day!

Your friend,
God

by Pream Anand aka Dj Baby Joe Black

Are you living your dream, or are you just dreaming to live

When you have a dream, it doesn’t often come at you screaming in your face. Dreams always come from behind you, it sneaks up on you. Sometimes, the dream almost whispers. Whispers, it never shouts. Very hard to hear. So, you have to everyday of your lives, be ready to hear what whispers in your ear.

I need you to be who you’re supposed to be because when you are who you are supposed to be, you are SUPER HUMAN. You got fear and you got faith. Decide to walk with faith instead of fear. There’s greatness in you.

Most of you say that you want to be successful but you don’t want it bad; you just kind of want it. You don’t want it as much as you want a party, you don’t want it as much as you want to be cool, most of you don’t want success as much as you want to sleep. Most of you love sleep more than you love success……!!!

Some things just don’t come to you because you want them to; you need to put in efforts and you should be willing to fight that thing out. They may not give you that thing but you can earn it, you can take it.

So, whatever you do, just don’t give up; don’t quit. Just because you failed doesn’t make you a failure and when life hits you, you just need to keep going.

In order to achieve greatness, you have to go through a lot of pain. You definitely have setbacks but in order to achieve that success, you have to push through.

If you hit an oak tree a thousand times, at a thousand different spots, what’s going to happen? Absolutely nothing. But if you hit that oak tree a thousand times at the exact same spot, you are going to bring it down; you are going to do the impossible.

You have to believe that you can do something that nobody else has done and somehow, that concept has to become your reality.

Fear, you are not going to stop me today. I have come too far to quit now.

You should believe in your dreams, you should believe in yourself and you have to believe that one day it is going to be your moment. One day, it will be your day. Impossible is just a big word thrown around by small men.

For many of you right now, life’s got you up against the road. You can’t give up. You can’t give in. Listen to me closely, if it were easy, everybody would do it.

You have got this far. You just can’t quit. If you wanted to quit, you should have quit a long time ago. You have come too far to give up now. Show them nothing is impossible. Be your own HERO.

So, I ask you now, “Are you living your dream, or are you just dreaming to live?” - Pream Anand

KEEP YOUR HUSBAND EVERY WOMAN SHOULD READ THESE RULES

1). Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.(Prov 15v1)
2). Don't expose your husband's weaknesses toyour family and friends. It will bounce back at you.You are each other's keeper.(Eph 5v12)
3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them. Defensive women don't have a happy home.(Prov 15v13)
4). Never compare your husband to other men, you've no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will diminish.
5). Never ill treat your husband's friends because you don't like them, the person who's supposed to get rid of them is your husband.(Prov 11v22)
6). Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.(Gen 2v24)
7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.(Eph 5v33)
8). Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.(Deut 3v28)
9). Never be a wasteful wife, your husband's sweat is too precious to be wasted.
10). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband sex. You must give it to him how he wants it. Sex is very important to Men, if you keep denying him, it is a matter of time before another woman takes over theat duty. No man can withstand sex starvation for too long(even the anointed ones) (SS 7v12)
11). Never compare your husband to your one time sex mate in bedroom, or an Ex-lover. Your home may Never recover from it if you do.(SS 5v9)
12). Never answer for your husband in public opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to him although he may answer for you in public opinion polls.(Prov 31v23)
13). Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children. Wise Women don't do that.(Eph 4v31)
14). Don't forget to check the smartness of your husband before he checks out.(Prov 12v4)
15). Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband.
16). Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on the dressing table. Out there your husband is always surrounded by women who took their time on their looks.( 1 Sam25v3)
17). Your parents or family or friends do not have the final say in your marriage. Don't waste your time looking up to them for a final word. You must Leave if you want to Cleave.(Luke 21v16)
18). Never base your love on monetary things. Will you still submit to him even if you earn more money than him?
19). Don't forget that husbands want attention and good listeners, never be too busy for him. Good communication is the bed rock of every happy home. (Gal 6v9)
20). If your idea worked better than his, never compare yourself to him. Its always teamwork.(Gal 6v10)
21). Don't be too judgemental to your husband. No man wants a Nagging wife.(Eph 4v29)
22). A lazy wife is a careless wife. She doesn't even know that her body needs a bath.(Prov 24v27)(Prov 20v13)
23). Does your husband like a kind of cooked food?, try to change your cooking. No man jokes with food. (Prov 31v14)
24). Never be too demanding to your husband,enjoy every moment, resource as it comes.(Luke 11v3)
25). Make a glass of water the very first welcome to your husband and everyone entering your home. Sweetness of attitude is true beauty. (Prov 31v11)
26). Don't associate with women who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage.(Prov 22v14)

Love is the single most mysterious word in this entire world

I can't stress enough how invisible this is to everyone including myself at times. When I see or hear the wrongs of love being blamed on love itself, it tightens my gut. Most likely because the majority of population that becomes associated with love doesn't really see into it more than what they see on TV, or hear in songs. You cannot blame love for our doings, may it be for good or bad. Saying "f*** love" and becoming cold as ice, turning out to be thorns without a rose, a bird that can't fly, insinuating that it is all love's fault is completely beyond me. If love was a person, I can surely say it would be the most depressed, saddened, ready-to-die being to ever exist. Love is treated as this amazing experience, this unprintable, unreal complete supreme heavenly feeling and/or emotion. Love is so much only when it is in the affection of positivity. There is so much about love being so many things, but one thing that everyone says about love is that it is huge! What I'm really trying to say is I could Google the word, quotes about the word, books about it, yadayada, you either cry in envy of wanting such love or cry in pain of such love existing. One of many actual truths about love is that people believe in it at the slightest sight of genuine care, but are so quick to rid of it at the first sight of disloyalty or other negative terms "bound" by love. My point being that people already tend to have an idea of what love is, and of what love should not be. When in fact people shouldn't expect a single thing out of love for love shows itself in its true form in the bearer of it and moments in our destiny. Love is not in the heart alone, love comes from an infinite amount of places, situations and outcomes. Objects, experiences and even time itself. Animals, humans, nature... Everything IS love. When you look at love as life you will begin to understand that love isn't like a virus that you catch. Love cannot ever be explained. And I want people to understand that any theory of it is completely wrong by default of people making it a researchable thing. Love is the single most mysterious word in this entire world and it will always be the most unexplainable ''whatever you want to call it'' till the end of times - Pream Anand

Everyone Lies

Everyone lies, and that is a fact we can't get away from, but lying to your significant other can and will result in overwhelming damage to your relationship. I didn't need to tell you that though, it's pretty obvious. Lying is very rarely ever a good thing because a lie is just another worry you have to think about every time whatever you lied about is brought up. Like Mark Twain once said "If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything". There is good lies as in planning a surprise for your loved one... and to be quite honest every other good lie falls in the surprising category(although most lies in general are surprising unless you're expecting them). Bad lies can be even something mild: let's say you kissed someone before you met your now boyfriend or girlfriend; You'd be shocked at how many people will actually lie about it to their partner even though it is something completely out of your partner's control and it's nothing you should ever worry about since it happened before your relationship. Yet, people lie about these things. Now this lie is implanted in your mind and every time this is somehow a conversation, you will have to lie over and over. You're not only lying to your partner, you lie to yourself and it will get to a point where you wish you would have just said it straight from the get go. Because if this simple measly little lie is ever exposed, your partner will wonder what else you lie about. Simply that something so small that could have been said wasn't said truthfully is a million times worse to many people than saying something they wish they didn't hear, but at least was honestly said. It'll be your downfall over the stupidest situation because you have created trust issues and people have different opinions on what broken trust can do no matter the size of the lie. It's crazy to think how something so irrelevant could even cause dangerous consequences. But that is the truth about lies; they are comforting and most of the time '' even if you don't know it '' what people prefer to hear. All it takes is one to have everything shatter. And many times it's the people with the smallest lies revealed that end up having the bigger ones hidden - Pream Anand

Are you living your dream, or are you just dreaming to live?

When you have a dream, it doesn’t often come at you screaming in your face. Dreams always come from behind you, it sneaks up on you. Sometimes, the dream almost whispers. Whispers, it never shouts. Very hard to hear. So, you have to everyday of your lives, be ready to hear what whispers in your ear.
I need you to be who you’re supposed to be because when you are who you are supposed to be, you are SUPER HUMAN. You got fear and you got faith. Decide to walk with faith instead of fear. There’s greatness in you.
Most of you say that you want to be successful but you don’t want it bad; you just kind of want it. You don’t want it as much as you want a party, you don’t want it as much as you want to be cool, most of you don’t want success as much as you want to sleep. Most of you love sleep more than you love success……!!!
Some things just don’t come to you because you want them to; you need to put in efforts and you should be willing to fight that thing out. They may not give you that thing but you can earn it, you can take it.
So, whatever you do, just don’t give up; don’t quit. Just because you failed doesn’t make you a failure and when life hits you, you just need to keep going.
In order to achieve greatness, you have to go through a lot of pain. You definitely have setbacks but in order to achieve that success, you have to push through.
If you hit an oak tree a thousand times, at a thousand different spots, what’s going to happen? Absolutely nothing. But if you hit that oak tree a thousand times at the exact same spot, you are going to bring it down; you are going to do the impossible.
You have to believe that you can do something that nobody else has done and somehow, that concept has to become your reality.
Fear, you are not going to stop me today. I have come too far to quit now.
You should believe in your dreams, you should believe in yourself and you have to believe that one day it is going to be your moment. One day, it will be your day. Impossible is just a big word thrown around by small men.
For many of you right now, life’s got you up against the road. You can’t give up. You can’t give in. Listen to me closely, if it were easy, everybody would do it.
You have got this far. You just can’t quit. If you wanted to quit, you should have quit a long time ago. You have come too far to give up now. Show them nothing is impossible. Be your own HERO.

So, I ask you now, “Are you living your dream, or are you just dreaming to live?” - Pream Anand Tharmalingam